Even busy bees need a break.
We had a chance to rest this past week as my kids enjoyed their Fall Break. And I must admit, I enjoyed it too!
The break relieved me and my husband from our normal sleuthing duties of determining if there is homework, has the homework been done, and you have how many exams this week?!
There was no morning rush to get out of the house on time and with everything essential.
Staying up late to finish homework? Didn’t miss that either. Band practices that linger into the night?
Lan enjoyed his “vacation.” He could always study more for sure but at a certain point enough is enough.
The progress report he will receive upon returning to school Tuesday isn’t half bad. It’s not exceptional, but at this point “not bad” is great!
You see, this is a year to“stretch” for Landon. He is accountable for much more such as harder classes, band competitions, the practices that go with them, in addition to those other things we are trying to impart in him to make him more mature and self-reliant.
As he watches his older brother prepare college applications, Lan is increasingly giving thought to his future. He has made it very clear on many occasions he doesn’t plan on living with me and my husband.
We’ve told him that goal will take maturity, growth and much effort on his part. His response has been to act more mature and look at a larger picture he’s never bothered to view before. Trying to get him to this goal has put us all in a whirlwind it seems.
Yet, sometimes when so much is required of us and it feels like everything is swirling around in every direction, the only way to get on top is to stop.
Stop relying solely on our own abilities.
We can’t continuously go, go, go if we don’t take time to recoup and recharge.
We often push our loved ones so they can do more and be more but those efforts must be balanced.
There have been times in my life were I wasn’t balanced at all. My sense of urgency didn’t move Lan any farther ahead. In fact, it was when I finally relinquished the control I “thought” I had that we both made huge gains for the better.
So if you haven’t been given a break, take one.
When our final days do come, I doubt any of us will wish we spent more time running around like crazy people trying to meet arbitrary goals dictated by people we will never meet.
Instead, take time to appreciate the color of fall leaves.
Live in moments of laughter.
Cast your cares.
Follow God’s example. If He took time to rest, we should too!
And on the seventh day God ended His work which He had done, and He rested on the seventh day from all His work which He had done. Genesis 2:2 NKJV