This week my kids are out of school for the break. So, earlier this week my husband and I took the kids to Lan’s favorite restaurant. This place is easily an hour away from our home and it takes a concerted effort on our part to get there.
The kids loaded up in the back of the car eagerly. We laughed and were silly and had a grand time. On the way back home, my oldest son stated he was glad we did it and that we should do it more often. Once I got over the shock that he actually enjoyed hanging out with his parents, I thought more about what he said.
I really should take a break more often.
I am guilty of trying to maximize my time and efforts as much as the next person. I have become a fairly decent multitasker. This ability has probably pushed me to do more than necessary at times when I really should have been recharging instead of using up all of my energy.
I don’t know if it is the fast paced culture I’m living in or my own self-delusions that leave me thinking I should always be accomplishing something, but I am feeling God’s nudge to let go many of my own efforts and to rely instead on His.
There is a difference in being busy and being productive. Sometimes “busy” becomes a habit that isn’t producing much more than anxiety, stress and physical ailments that stem from trying to do a week’s worth of activities in a day.
I am glad I heeded the prodding of the Spirit to “do lunch” instead of tackling my “to do” list! The time spent produced laughter and joy, strengthened family ties, and provided clarity of mind. I could have used that time; instead, to tackle some things I needed to get done but the time wouldn’t have been nearly as productive.
Many of us caring for people with special needs or family members suffering with a long-term illness often burn ourselves out because we don’t rest when we should. Sometimes we are so stressed and feel mentally compressed that we tackle everything head on when sometimes bit by bit is actually more efficient.
I will take my oldest son’s advice. I am long overdue to take a break from stress, over scheduling, and unrealistic expectations. I’m going to take breaks more often, getting over those things I allow to hold me hostage and even myself. Only then can I enjoy this life to the fullest. What about you?
Are you overdue for a break?
“Come to Me, all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For My yoke is easy and My burden is light.” Matthew 11:28-29.
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Two of three of our boys are still home. They are 21 and 18. Twice during this break, they have asked us to just eat in the family room with them and watch tv, talk, etc So we have–It’s been quite the blessing. I told my husband that to have our boys want to stay home and ‘hang’ with us is a blessing and we are both grateful.
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You are so correct.
I look at my boys and think about all the “time” I took for granted when they were little. As they grow older. It is really the simple things like time spent together, nothing extravagant, but just time together, grateful for one another that is truly a priceless gift.
I’m glad you’ve had good “quality” time with them during the break.
Peace, joy and a blessed New Year for you and your family in 2015! 🙂