I’m enjoying a plethora of blooms in my yard before the sweltering heat comes and takes hold of us here in the southeast. However, the slightest wind or harsh rains send petals all a flutter to the ground. As beautiful as the blooms are, their beauty fades quickly and doesn’t last.

Sometimes I feel just as fragile. I have the best of intentions. But sometimes my “to do” list just doesn’t get done. My mind sometimes swims through a list of things to do and should have done. Regret for lost time can intrude upon my progress and leave me feeling as helpless as my roses in the storm.

Or there are times when I’m okay but my children seem a bit battered and bruised. The struggle to meet or exceed expectations can wear them down.  Keeping them “up” and encouraged while trying to adhere to the same advice I give them is sometimes…hard.

We all go through times when we feel weak, weary and just need some relief. I’ve sometimes felt vulnerable and ready to wilt under changing demands and looming uncertainties

The picture posted above reminds me of the frailty of life.  We are often just as weak and helpless, susceptible to life’s storms.

Or are we?

The temporary highs in life are beautiful but they can’t last forever. Just like those frail blooms. It is the strong and pointed stems that support the fleeting beauty. The petals are soft but the thorns are sharp. Those painful thorns stems facilitate survival. Those stems support the blooms.

I think on this as I think back on how God has supported me through the years. It hasn’t always been pretty, but His love has never failed. Some situations were sticky. A few, quite painful. Yet through them all, God lifted us up and displayed His beauty often at times when I felt I was past done!

We don’t have to be strong all the time. We just have to be willing to be supported by Him. This will often leave us in a few prickly situations that can be painful. Some may even draw blood. But when we are supported by God, our strength then comes from Him!

When I feel fragile, it’s okay. I’m not dependent on my strength at all. God is supporting me, my trials, concerns and even my dreams. I don’t fear when one bloom fades. Trusting God eases my mind, pushes away my fears and reassures me that I don’t have to “feel” okay to be okay. There may be times when I look like I’m fading fast, but God holds me up!

Even when I’m spent, with Him lies the potential for future blooms.

“And He said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for My strength is made perfect in weakness…” 2 Corinthians 12:9


5 thoughts on “Fragile!”

  1. This is a super message to all of us, Lilka! The Lord provides…always! It is in His time and way, and we can’t always understand some of the “answers” we get, nor support He sends. But this is always true, He will always help us! “…never will I leave you, never will I forsake you” is His promise (Heb. 13:5).

    Steve Pejay


    1. Thanks Steve. I’ve been bogged down with work these past five days so a bit absent on WP. I hang on to that particular verse, very timely for the day I’ve had. Thanks, for the reminder today 🙂


      1. Lilka, you have to know by now that you are a special “sister” in the Lord to me! I love what you post and it always has a great and Godly point of view.

        We all have things in our day which we must attend to. But when you have time for a post, many of us love to hear what’s on your mind.

        Enjoy this day in your hope of heaven and God’s love…

        Steve 🙂


  2. Isn’t it wonderful to know that we don’t have to be strong all the time? What a relief! How wonderful that we can be real and honest and know that in our weakness then He is strong and He never lets us down. Hugs, blessings, peace and strength to you dear friend, I thank HIm for sending you my way… ❤


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