My “new” college student is managing the usual challenges of being a freshman in a new city. He is learning about his professors. He is learning about digital presentations. He is even learning his way around his community. Yet, there is one thing he had to learn that most people take for granted to make this all possible.
He had to learn to ride a bike.
Something as simple as riding a bike isn’t necessarily simple to someone on the spectrum.
Thankfully, Lan was up to the challenge and his favorite aunt was more than willing to teach him.
It was not without its challenges.
It was probably nerve-wracking for the both of us!
He persevered through those initial falls and gashes.
He persevered through a broken guard and loose chains.
He persevered in the summertime heat.
Lan persevered because he wanted to go away to school and riding a bike made that feasible. What most people view as a recreational pastime is essential to him not only getting to school but also the grocery store, Target and most anywhere without depending on anyone.
Freedom.
Lan wants the freedom to come and go as he pleases.
It didn’t take him long to ride beyond the comfort zone of the school and make it to Starbucks. Now, Lan is just one of many kids riding his bike to school.
Like everyone else.
He is proud of himself and he should be.
He rose to the challenge and past the temporary frustration. He is becoming confident in his abilities to take care of himself.
And I am grateful.
One of the last things he asked me before I returned home was, “When can I get my driver’s license?”
I told him, “We’ll get around to it. Let’s just concentrate on the bike for now.”
Well, Hurricane Irma gave him some time away from school and time with his Uncle. A few days later Lan posted this.
This kid has taught me that determination can move mountains. He has taught me not to panic at the first sign of trouble. But most of all, he has taught me to remember he has his own hopes and dreams.
He wants to enjoy life, liberty and pursue happiness.
The road to freedom looks good on him.
For this is the will of God, that by doing good you may put to silence the ignorance of foolish men— as free, yet not using liberty as a cloak for vice, but as bondservants of God.
1 Peter 2:15-16 NKJV
How amazing!! I love that he has learned to ride a bike and now drive a car!! Totally amazing. God is good!
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God is AWESOME! He is still learning the car but his determination does teach me a thing or two! Keep the faith and never doubt what God is willing to do for you!
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Totally awesome for you and for Lan. I am so proud of his determination and courage. That is a kid that will go far in life.
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I was really concerned about his anxiety level surrounding this move but Lan has really stepped up to a new level. He challenges me to do the same and move beyond my fears. Hope you are feeling better on your end! 🙂
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getting some OTC meds so hopefully soon. 😉
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I am crying, but they are happy tears ! Your Lan is unstoppable! Yay Jesus!
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Definitely ALL Jesus! This kid is always teaching me something or forcing me to stretch my faith. Thanks for checking it out and for your well wishes. It really does take a village! Peace to you! 🙂
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Love, love, love this post! 🙂
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Thank you. This kid continues to amaze me even in the midst of his challenges. He continues to teach me a thing or two. Thanks for stopping by and taking time to comment! 🙂
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